Post by Tai on Jun 20, 2013 5:08:24 GMT -5
Boyfriend / Fiance / Husband…
How many of these qualities are important to you and how many of these qualities are possessed by your significant other?
Feel free to add to it!!*Side note I know this list is ridiculously long
1. …will not cheat on me.
2. …will recycle, donate to a cause, volunteer, and otherwise be a contributing member to society’s well-being.
3. …won’t put others down to make himself feel better.
4. …will treat everyone with respect.
5. …will have a job.
6. …will not smoke pot.
7. …will talk when the need arises versus trying to put it off until later.
8. …will not watch ESPN endlessly.
9. …will not judge me for watching bad TV.
10. …will not be jealous of my best friends.
11. …will not want to spend every waking second with me.
12. …will call me more than text me.
13. …will be passionate.
14. …will be emotionally mature, available, and evolved.
15. …will not wear more than one cell phone holster.
16. …will know how to manage finances.
17. …will not be vain / shallow.
18. …will ask me how I’m feeling and how my day was... and actually care.
19. …will be content sometimes to spend the whole day in bed watching movies and eating takeout.
20. …will compliment me every now and then, especially when I've made an effort to look nice/beautiful.
21. …will not be an alcoholic.
22. …will have goals, dreams, and the confidence to reach them.
23. …will understand me...my likes and dislikes.
24. …will know how to do his own laundry.
25. …will text or call just to say ‘Hi.’
26. …will not live across the country.
27. …will consider a long distance relationship if he has to move away.
28. …will be interested in culture, music, art, and travel.
29. …will have read a book since high school or college.
30. …will not snore…much.
31. …will tell the truth.
32. …will be open-minded and non-judgmental of others.
33. …will put as much effort forth to find out about my day as I did about his.
34. …will communicate effectively and maturely.
35. …will enjoying spending free-time with me.
36. …will be crazy about me as much as I will be about him.
37. …will not belittle me or put me down.
38. …will appreciate the art of foreplay.
39. …will not try to teach me when as if I am a child.
40. …will be fashionable.
41. …will want to go to sleep at night with me, and wake up beside me in the mornings, not on the couch.
42. …will have want sexual contact multiple times a week consistently.
43. …will appreciate my efforts to try new things.
44. …will talk to me when something bothers him and not let issues simmer.
45. …will love me for me — faults, imperfections and all — and love me all the more for them.
46. …will continually surprise me.
47. …will lovingly accept my neurosis.
48. …will have the ‘we’ team mentality.
49. …will stay with me through joy and pain.
50. …will have a backbone in the relationship and not be afraid to tell me ‘no.’
51. …will be a great kisser.
52. …will have a great sense of humor, but know when to be serious.
53. …will be more passionate in random moments.
54. …will know who he is as a person and be honest about that.
55. …will think I’m HOT, not just cute and MAKE ME KNOW IT.
56. …will treat me better than my friends do.
57. …will be able to laugh at himself.
58. …will have a regular sized temper than does not super-size itself randomly.
59. …will kiss me passionately regularly.
60. …will give me space.
61. …will not have a fixation with his ex but rather a healthy relationship with them esp. if children are involved.
62. …will not make me feel like I’m only second best.
63. …will be able to think more than two day in the future.
64. …will make an attempt to stay up late and sleep early with me.
65. …will have a strong spiritual connection.
66. …will want a family.
67. …will know what a commitment is and follow up that knowledge with actions that support it.
68. …will understand that relationships aren't all perfect, and that sometimes acceptance of disagreements may resolve difficult issues.
69. …will like going out and doing interesting things regularly.
70. …will be responsible with children.
71. …will enjoy his job.
72. …will appreciate that my child/ren may be my number one priority.
73. …will like/love pets.
74. …will talk dirty when appropriate.
75. …will be confident in himself, but not egotistical.
76. …won’t have an extensive and publicly known porn collection or addiction.
77. …will trust me.
78. …will be more interested in sex because he wants to be connected with me, not because it’s JUST sex and he JUST wants it.
79. …will be cultured.
80. …will take out the trash and happily do the dishes.
81. …will not take himself so seriously.
82. …will not beat a dead horse of a conversation when we disagree, and try to strong arm to prove he is right
83. …will not be selfish with his love when things don’t go his way.
84. …will say he’s open minded and actually mean it
85. …won’t judge me by my past relationships.
86. …will not remind me of how hot girls are that are the complete opposite of me.
87. …will understand that intimacy is not sex and strive to maintain intimacy with me.
88. …will not push away from me while I’m on my period.
89. …will have already installed the filter that lets him know when not to say inappropriate, offensive things in front of me.
90. …will love that I have such a big heart.
91. …will be smart but not snide.
92. …will not have friends of the opposite sex that disrespect our relationship.
93. …will love that I’m independent.
94. …will be okay with public displays of affection such as holding hands.
95. …will not be in trouble with the law.
96. …will involve himself with me and my passions/hobbies.
97. …will make an effort to be the BEST FATHER he can be, living up to his potential.
98. …will VOTE and not make excuses about why he chooses not to vote.
99. …will NOT be a manorexic gym fanatic.
100. …will stand up for me, and fight for our relationship.
How many of these qualities are important to you and how many of these qualities are possessed by your significant other?
Feel free to add to it!!*Side note I know this list is ridiculously long 1. …will not cheat on me.
2. …will recycle, donate to a cause, volunteer, and otherwise be a contributing member to society’s well-being.
3. …won’t put others down to make himself feel better.
4. …will treat everyone with respect.
5. …will have a job.
6. …will not smoke pot.
7. …will talk when the need arises versus trying to put it off until later.
8. …will not watch ESPN endlessly.
9. …will not judge me for watching bad TV.
10. …will not be jealous of my best friends.
11. …will not want to spend every waking second with me.
12. …will call me more than text me.
13. …will be passionate.
14. …will be emotionally mature, available, and evolved.
15. …will not wear more than one cell phone holster.
16. …will know how to manage finances.
17. …will not be vain / shallow.
18. …will ask me how I’m feeling and how my day was... and actually care.
19. …will be content sometimes to spend the whole day in bed watching movies and eating takeout.
20. …will compliment me every now and then, especially when I've made an effort to look nice/beautiful.
21. …will not be an alcoholic.
22. …will have goals, dreams, and the confidence to reach them.
23. …will understand me...my likes and dislikes.
24. …will know how to do his own laundry.
25. …will text or call just to say ‘Hi.’
26. …will not live across the country.
27. …will consider a long distance relationship if he has to move away.
28. …will be interested in culture, music, art, and travel.
29. …will have read a book since high school or college.
30. …will not snore…much.
31. …will tell the truth.
32. …will be open-minded and non-judgmental of others.
33. …will put as much effort forth to find out about my day as I did about his.
34. …will communicate effectively and maturely.
35. …will enjoying spending free-time with me.
36. …will be crazy about me as much as I will be about him.
37. …will not belittle me or put me down.
38. …will appreciate the art of foreplay.
39. …will not try to teach me when as if I am a child.
40. …will be fashionable.
41. …will want to go to sleep at night with me, and wake up beside me in the mornings, not on the couch.
42. …will have want sexual contact multiple times a week consistently.
43. …will appreciate my efforts to try new things.
44. …will talk to me when something bothers him and not let issues simmer.
45. …will love me for me — faults, imperfections and all — and love me all the more for them.
46. …will continually surprise me.
47. …will lovingly accept my neurosis.
48. …will have the ‘we’ team mentality.
49. …will stay with me through joy and pain.
50. …will have a backbone in the relationship and not be afraid to tell me ‘no.’
51. …will be a great kisser.
52. …will have a great sense of humor, but know when to be serious.
53. …will be more passionate in random moments.
54. …will know who he is as a person and be honest about that.
55. …will think I’m HOT, not just cute and MAKE ME KNOW IT.
56. …will treat me better than my friends do.
57. …will be able to laugh at himself.
58. …will have a regular sized temper than does not super-size itself randomly.
59. …will kiss me passionately regularly.
60. …will give me space.
61. …will not have a fixation with his ex but rather a healthy relationship with them esp. if children are involved.
62. …will not make me feel like I’m only second best.
63. …will be able to think more than two day in the future.
64. …will make an attempt to stay up late and sleep early with me.
65. …will have a strong spiritual connection.
66. …will want a family.
67. …will know what a commitment is and follow up that knowledge with actions that support it.
68. …will understand that relationships aren't all perfect, and that sometimes acceptance of disagreements may resolve difficult issues.
69. …will like going out and doing interesting things regularly.
70. …will be responsible with children.
71. …will enjoy his job.
72. …will appreciate that my child/ren may be my number one priority.
73. …will like/love pets.
74. …will talk dirty when appropriate.
75. …will be confident in himself, but not egotistical.
76. …won’t have an extensive and publicly known porn collection or addiction.
77. …will trust me.
78. …will be more interested in sex because he wants to be connected with me, not because it’s JUST sex and he JUST wants it.
79. …will be cultured.
80. …will take out the trash and happily do the dishes.
81. …will not take himself so seriously.
82. …will not beat a dead horse of a conversation when we disagree, and try to strong arm to prove he is right
83. …will not be selfish with his love when things don’t go his way.
84. …will say he’s open minded and actually mean it
85. …won’t judge me by my past relationships.
86. …will not remind me of how hot girls are that are the complete opposite of me.
87. …will understand that intimacy is not sex and strive to maintain intimacy with me.
88. …will not push away from me while I’m on my period.
89. …will have already installed the filter that lets him know when not to say inappropriate, offensive things in front of me.
90. …will love that I have such a big heart.
91. …will be smart but not snide.
92. …will not have friends of the opposite sex that disrespect our relationship.
93. …will love that I’m independent.
94. …will be okay with public displays of affection such as holding hands.
95. …will not be in trouble with the law.
96. …will involve himself with me and my passions/hobbies.
97. …will make an effort to be the BEST FATHER he can be, living up to his potential.
98. …will VOTE and not make excuses about why he chooses not to vote.
99. …will NOT be a manorexic gym fanatic.
100. …will stand up for me, and fight for our relationship.
